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A reader of my blog kindly requested that I throw up some confidence spells. So here is the first, the rest will be spread out over the coming weeks/months. Confidence starts within, spells help but the majority of the work depends on you and your outlook on the situation and yourself, change your thinking and you change your life.

Items Needed:

  • A pink candle for self love
  • Matches
  • Candle holder
  • A piece of paper folded in half long wise to form two columns.
  • Pen/Pencil
  • A fire proof dish to burn paper.

Timing: Whenever.

First prepare yourself for magick; take a cleansing shower, play relaxing music. When you are feeling content hold the pink candle in your hands and empower it, see yourself being confident in all that you do. See yourself approaching people, talking with purpose and authority, see yourself being authentically you and being accepted. When you are ready say these or similar words:

I am me, and that is ok

I have lots of positive traits to display

Let people see the positive in me

I empower this candle with this decree.

Light the candle. Write down on one column all the things that you think people may not like about you. For example:

  1. I am a witch
  2. I am overweight
  3. I am a single parent

Now on the other side; write the same things again but cross them out writing something that cancels it out like:

  1. I am a witch I am really devoted to my spiritual path; it helps shape me into who I am today.
  2. I am overweight What is on the outside is only part of who I am, I have lots of positive inner qualities some normal sized people do not have.
  3. I am a single parent  I am a great mother who cares deeply for her child, the right person will be totally attracted to that!

When you take the things that you think people will not like and turn into something that you are proud of or do well it helps to see your perceived problems as positive.

Take the paper and rip it down the center so the negative and the negative plus positive are on to separate pieces of paper; hold the negative by itself in your hands. Say this or similar words:

What I have written I now undo

I have taken time and thought it through

You no longer have power over me

I can see clearly now, I am free!

Take that paper and burn it!!! You now have the positive traits to look at put them somewhere special anytime you find yourself getting back into the negative talk read the paper and remember how amazingly awesome you are! Let the candle burn out, remove the cooled ashes from your property. Take the candle remains and save them in a safe place like a mojo bag or somewhere else safe.

Repeat the spell as needed. 

©Katie McBrien 2014

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